My Shenanigans

I will try to share a positive quote everyday, but I am not going to promise I will.  I do it on my instagram and facebook: MontseHarashima.  This was todays quote, which helped me start posting on the blog.  I had been thinking of posting on the blog for a while now, but  I was actually scared.  I had done it before and I was actually pretty good at it.  But for some reason doing it now seemed scary.  I was scared of failure and what would people say of me doing it again.  What if it did not work..? But then  I really thought about it.  What am I going to lose if I don't make it.  NOTHING! Because I won't, I started thinking of how great this is going to go and how my work will pay off.  Positive thinking, will attract positive outcomes.  I want to share this positively with you guys, and spread with others.

Thursday I will try to dedicate it to my fashion post.  As a mom I have struggled with my fashion senses.  Before my kids I had an awesome fashion knowledge.  I used to be in the fashion/ modeling world (which I miss so much!!!.) At some point of my life I used to get paid to dress people and give fashion advice.  If you see me now with my kids and I told you that you would be like, "yeah right..?lol."  But we all change after having kids, some of us change more than the others.  For the ones like me, that lost completely themselves and are trying to find themselves again after having kids.  I hope this helps.  For the ones that did not struggle, let me congratulate you and say HELP US!!!!!!!! lol Please, give us some pointers on what to do. Nice and kindly give some advice,  And for the ones that are okay with leggings and t-shirts for the rest of your life.  We love your confidence and there is nothing wrong with that.  You go girl!  I love any stage of fashion you are at,

 As a mom we always have many tasks to complete.  Some are big some are small.  Some are related to house chores, work, family, etc.  We have a to due list of never ending things.  But what do we do when we finish something that has taken us a while to finish or we usually see no end to.  We start thinking of why it took us so long to acomplish?  How we will never let it happen again! Then we start a guilt trip, a very unnecessary guilt trip over the smallest things.  Not only moms do it, women do it.  But as a mom  I feel like we do it a lot because we have the pressure of perfection.  We want to be the best employees, best moms, best wives, on top of our games.  With out taking actual time to our selves and giving ourselves credit.  We are freaking warriors.  All the things we accomplish and all we do is complain of how it could of been done better or faster?  We need to do better.  I have noticed I used to do this a lot.  I am starting to take note of it and change the way I think.